Dealing with Children Who Temperament

When the child is upset, the first thing to do is ignore their anger. Try not to do anything. In other words, never mind his anger. This will teach the child that the outburst is not the only way to get something or parental concern.

If it is really too up can damage something or endanger themselves and others, parents should immediately alienates the child to his room or other enclosed space when it happened occurred in a public place. During the exile, not paying attention to him for some time.

Secondly, being Solidify. Often parents will be difficult to firmly when faced with a situation like this, and tried immediately to get out of the situation by granting the request of the child regardless of its form. This action is not a good solution, in fact the opposite. Instead of seeking to resolve the problem, will actually make matters worse by events that would continue over and over again. The child will use a "weapon" to upset the other desires. If you have this, parents will be dizzy "nine" circumference.

Therefore, it is important for parents to be able to stand firm and hold fast to the rule. That way you have the strength to overcome this situation. Children will learn that not all wishes should always be fulfilled immediately. He will learn to be realistic about what behavior is acceptable and what is not. Here, parents will also learn how he should be able to be consistent.

Then, stay calm and not provoked emotions is the best attitude for parents. Say to yourself, that I can control my child while teaching him how to control himself. Quiet is the personal characteristics of parents who emotionally stable and not affected by the attitude of the child because he really just wanted to test our patience as parents. So, stay calm ... persoalah anger is not a big kid.

Immediately give praise when the child has been able to control his temper, then do fun activities together. You can express how much you love him and are very happy that the child is better now. Say also that you do not like screaming, shouting and crying children. This action will help him understand that we do not care and you do not like is anger, not him. That way the child will continue to feel cherished and loved by her parents.

If at any time your child is being nice and you want to give something that your child never asked the other day (with anger), then tell the child the reason why now you want to give these objects. This is important, because it should not be thought about in the mind of the child that is caused by your actions anger the other day, but instead due to other reasons, namely good behavior this time.

You can also create rules agreed upon prior to any activity or travel, in order to avoid a complicated situation that does not exist in the previous agreement.

A good idea to give rewards to the child if he has a good effect and has been running what has been agreed. This will make him feel proud and appreciated.


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